About
Jennifer Cram...
I am a
mature,
calm, highly skilled,
authorised and accredited Civil Marriage, Naming and General Celebrant.
I have the skills, life-experience, and capacity to think outside the
box that will ensure that your ceremony reflects
your unique style, and the sense of
humour that enables me to cope with any situation. Your ceremony is
about you, not about me, so I do nothing to disempower you or steal
your thunder.
As a Civil Marriage Celebrant I am appointed by the Attorney-General
to conduct civil marriage ceremonies in compliance with the
requirements of the Marriage Act.
As an accredited Naming Celebrant and General Celebrant I also offer
ceremonies to acknowledge or celebrate other events -
- the loving commitment of partners who are
not marrying,
- the naming and welcoming of a child into
the family
- renewal of marriage vows for couples
celebrating staying married
- a divorce or end of a relationship
- reaching puberty or maturity (wise-woman
ceremonies also known as croning)
- launching of businesses or other ventures
- house-warming
- other ceremonies
I classify myself as a Secular Humanist. That is, I adhere to a
rational philosophy informed by science, inspired by art, and motivated
by compassion. I strongly affirm the dignity of each human being,
support the maximisation of individual liberty and opportunity
consonant with both social and environmental responsibility, and
endorse democracy, education, equality, justice, tolerance, reason and
environmental responsibility. The unique ceremonies I create for
my clients reference their beliefs, not my own. Most clients
seeking a civil ceremony want no religious expression in their
ceremony. However, in Australia there is no prohibition on inclusion of
religious expression within a civil ceremony
provided that it is at the express request
of the client. So my clients have complete freedom
regarding expression of their beliefs through their ceremony.
Who I will work for
I provide ceremonies for everyone regardless of culture, age, gender,
religion, sexual orientation, or the time of day or type of setting in
which the ceremony is being held.
The clients I actively seek are those who seek value for money (as
opposed to
a cheap ceremony), who want their
ceremony to be truly expressive of who they are, who understand the
consequences of making the wrong choice when selecting their celebrant
and who have an appreciation of how much a skilled and professional
celebrant can bring to their ceremony
- knowledge
- capacity to design and deliver a ceremony
that uses beautiful words to touch the hearts and minds of everyone
present
- capacity to design and direct a ceremony
that is visually satisfying and delivers opportunities for stunning
photographs
Where
I am
I am based in the western suburbs of Brisbane and conduct ceremonies
throughout Brisbane, Ipswich, Caboolture, and the surrounding areas in
Queensland,
Australia.
Qualifications in
celebrancy
Other
qualifications
I hold a number of
academic qualifications which have provided me with
transferable knowledge and skills applicable to general celebrancy:
- Bachelor of Arts, majoring in English
Literature and
Psychology
- Diploma
in Education
- Higher
Diploma in Library Science (With Distinction)
- Graduate
Diploma in Advanced Librarianship
- Graduate Certificate in Public Sector
Management
These qualifications and
many
years of experience in librarianship, education and management have
equipped me
with highly developed
skills in
- formal public speaking
- capacity to 'read' an audience and ensure
that they connect with the ceremony
- interviewing
clients to establish their needs
- providing
service and information to clients which meets their needs and timelines
- research,
analysis and synthesis of information
- writing (author of approximately 100
published works)
- creativity
- attention to detail
- high level computer skills that enable me
to produce documents with professional layout and content
- high level of comfort and facility with
online communication
- working with others to assist them to
meet their own needs and achieve their goals
Presentation
I am well-spoken with good
voice projection.
I will seek
information from you about the dress-code for your occasion together
with your chosen colour scheme so that I can ensure that my outfit will
coordinate but will not compete. My dress style is elegant and
understated.
'No
uncomfortable surprises' policy
My policy and commitment is that you will have no uncomfortable
surprises in relation
to your ceremony. Everything, including the final text of your
ceremony,
will be agreed and signed off beforehand.
My 'no uncomfortable surprises' policy includes no surprises for the
participants.
While I'm happy to perform ceremonies that are a surprise for your
guests or others, I believe it is unfair to spring such a surprise on a
participant.
Custom-created vs Personalisation
There is a world of difference between a "personalised" ceremony
and a custom-created ceremony. A personalised ceremony is generally a
standard or mix-and-match ceremony which includes a section or two that
is about you, but the rest could be about anyone.
I deliver only custom-created ceremonies, so I will use a number of
mechanisms to
ensure that I understand your needs, values and
wishes for your ceremony.
- I will work in close conjunction with you
to facilitate
development of a unique ceremony. While this is more work for me I feel
it works much better for you and for your guests than the more-usual
"mix-and-match" methodology where you are given a number of ceremonies
to pick and choose bits from. I will do as much of the work in writing
your ceremony as you wish me to.
- A full rehearsal
is part of the
package for Full Service Couture Weddings and Commitment Ceremonies
ceremonies. A rehearsal
is a dry
run of the ceremony and should include all participants. But it is also
more than that - a rehearsal is part of the ongoing realisation of the
commitment between the couple, which deepens through the process of
preparing for the ceremony. A rehearsal
will take much longer than the actual ceremony, so many celebrants do
not include a rehearsal and some even actively advise against one.
There are many reasons for holding a rehearsal on site (or if that's
not possible, in a space that has been mapped out to replicate the
site), these include:
- It helps everyone involved know what is
expected of them and allows a walk through of the mechanical details,
enabling all the various logistics to be worked out and understood by
everyone and allowing everyone to concentrate more fully on the special
moments during the ceremony
- It ensures that all transitions during
the ceremony are smooth
- It ensures that photgraphic
opportunities are optimised
- It allows everyone's pacing to be
synchronised
- It ensures that all the readers have a
chance to practice their
readings and check their pacing, interpretation and voice projection
- It gives an opportunity to have an
"emotional" dry run of the
ceremony. As well as physically walking you through the ceremony, I
build into the rehearsal processes that help you experience your actual
ceremony to its fullest.
Privacy
- Any
information provided to me is provided in confidence.
- Information is
stored in a secure location, is accessed only by me, and is kept
no longer than is needed for the purposes of your ceremony, at
which
time
it is destroyed by shredding.
- I do not pass
on, or otherwise use, any information provided as part of arrangements
for your ceremony for any purpose.

Contact
Me
Jennifer Cram
Commonwealth Government Authorised Civil Marriage Celebrant
Naming & General Celebrant
P O Box 20
Indooroopilly Queensland 4068
Phone (07) 3378 3005
International Callers + 61 7 3378 3005